Open up your mind....

It's hard to get someone in your life to be open and would accept you or your ideas of life.. Very rare to be meeting these people, somehow open up your mind and could listen and digest a lil bit of what you might be thinking or doing..

Tackle problems in life as a rounded ball.. Theres no exact sides to get the answer... its always trial and error.. if you cant get this way..try the other way to get it fix. But always need to know how round the ball is and what is all about.. In other words, need to understand the magnitude of the problem and what is the root of the problem to tackle it.. If you try to kick the ball away, it will bounced back to you harrd...

But human minds are very narrow most of the times. We only see one side of the surface and do not want to dwell into indepth. Thats the biggest mistake most of us have. Even we tried multiple times to solve the problems, we ought to seek help from others.. Others might have gone through a similar problem in the past and some lesson learned to get it fix... and most often, the solution will be out of your mind or would be the opposite of your views.

We shouldnt instantly brush away those valuable opinions. Its just an opinion from someone that see the problem from the outside into in.. And we normally see the problem from the inside out... It may take a painful step to solve it.. No medicine in this world is so sweet, but the most effective medicine has always been the bitter ones.

An opinion for me is something valuable. It makes me realised something that I have not realised by my own. Sometimes, people would point out the same thing as we have thought off, but again, dont brushed them aside...its marely a reminder.. A check that we have done it or not... But also, some problems are caused by ourselves.. And we refuse to admit the mistakes...Why??..Ego...

People from outside would tend to say that the ego blinds us.. And its true.. We should handled it in a properly manner... We accept it.. and we appologise to the person and thank him for his/her opinion.. If we agree his opinion, smile and walk away and change or improve yourself... but if we disagrees their opinion, again, Thank them for their kind thoughts with NOT in sacarstic manner, but in the most humble attitude and walk off...

So be open mind, get as much views and try to debate it in the most positive manner, try to digest it for food for thoughts... and somehow, somewhere, we will use that idea to solve other problems as well..

iDAN