Women are From MARS tooo..

I'm just sick and tired when the women always generalized the man as "MEN are all the same!!"

Theres also another saying..so girls...take note... "To know one is to BE one!!"...the phrase are just do correct in that sense.. So ladies...you are no better than the guys...

Why Am i so being emotional on this?!.. Well...various occasion occurred in these past few days... I had a discussion with my Sayang with her friend... well...She said that her boyfriend is not a town guy and he is soo nice... She was like telling me that its OK for her to take advantage of his kindness to go out with another guy behind his back.. Again, she was mentioning, that her Boyfriend was earning quite well and not spending "enough" money....so she took the liberty to ''spent" it all... I was like so stunned looking at her...cladded in tudung (i have nothing against tudung gurls!!)...decent looking...but heyyy!!....shes totally opposite from what I've though... And another statement she made " Well...its not me alone doing this...but mostly the girls i know done the same thingg!!!"....

So...shall I say men are assholeS?...well..WOMEN are no different that us MEN!!....maybe even WORST!!...

Another incident happened to me just recently, while driving from KL to my house... As usual, I would take the long route home... just enjoying my stallion looking car and suddenly, this lady Driver kancil was swiveling around the federal highway... and She looked at me as If i did something wrongg... (another disclaimer...I was at the slowest lane accordance to Malaysian road and safety regulation of the road codes!!)... I smiled...but she gave me a finger!!....bloody hell WOMAN!....

OK...let me explains this clearly... I love Women!...besides...I love my girlfriend, my mom, my sister, my grandmother so muchh... And I dont have anything against WOMEN...but I just againts the phrase they normally chanting to other people..."Men are assholes..and they are all the same"....My bet is ... WOMEN are the SAME too..or maybe much worst!!...

Sooooo...My advise ladies!!....Please dont generalise MEN.... You are no different than the rest of the population on this living planet!!

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The point beingg....

I went bowling just now and I saw a guy on the lane beside mine, he was so 'equipped' with Robocop-like handgear, expensive bowling shoes and bowling ball, cladded with proper clothing and starts to bowl.

He swings his ball up high, like professional always do, and release the ball slowly (dude...whats the point swinging your hand up high)... The ball went spinning hook and the pin clashes...Just one pin standing up high...His face was so frustrated..and blaming to the pin not falling down... He blames on fate....and actually he didnt bowl that good, but he thought he was...

So...whats the point of me writting this story to you??...

Well... He was bluntly blaming of the pin not falling down on fate. He doesn't know that his style was actually wrong from the begining.. Why didnt he blame it on the style he was playing? He has the expensive shoes, expensive bowling ball and expensive handgear (remember the Robocop-like thingy???)

I still couldnt understand why most of us blaming thingys that we want it to be done like that but we didnt make it real? Why cant we just accept that maybe the style, or the way we think its right is wrong?

For me, I wont blame it to the pin or the rolling bowling ball that didnt hit the pin's fault...But I will change my style, my speed, my position to the situation.
The point being is, we should not blame things on fate that has fated to us. Yes God has set a ''Life path" for us, but we could determined the fate that is coming towards us, if we can see yourself. We should know our own capabilities, our limits, our strength, our weakness..then we know whats coming for us...

I learned myself while I was away from home, family and most biggest factor that hindering me to learn myself is ''the comfort zone''. I didnt know how I could lead my life without the people I know, and the comfort that I used to have until then.. I didnt know that I could cook, or managed finances and managed my own life.. Thats when you know your strength and weakness.
I've gone through bitter moments and sometimes sweetness of life, but once you gone through those, you wont bother or you'll know the medicine of that problem.

SO... God actually set a destination of life for us...but not the path of life... we as His humble servant, choose the type of path to reach that destination. You can go to a straight path, or you could go through a crooked path... For me, I would choose the crooked one, because I will learn something more in life from a straight one. Experiences is precious..

SO my fellow friends, dont blame on fate, or blame on those expensive gears that you have, blame it to yourself...because its not fate that is at fault, its the way you determined your own fate is the fault.

Miri miri Miri...

Before the first time I arrived Miri, people always give this impression that Miri is far behind time. People still wear a fig around shopping and walk through dense jungle, and you need to hunt for food everyday... But hey...as a city kid, Its an adventure.

Well...I first came to Miri with an open heart, and I used to living in other people's country, and I dont speak French or German...and I survived!!...even when I was brought into a police station in Germany because they thought I was entering Germany without Visa!..I survived still!..

Now,Miri'an dont speak French, do they? They don't say Guten Tag in the morning, do they?...They speak Selamat Pagi!!...So why cant I survive in my own country?...

And look at me now...I'm just enjoying Miri... Relax, Calm, Exciting, Adventure, Peacefull and like the Sarawakian always sayy..."nyaaamann!!"

Enough for today... I just need some relaxation time people!!....

Have a nice Weekend peeps..

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Some might know me personally, some might know me as a person and some might know me by Name.. Well...Its nice knowing that you guys have the interest to read about me..

Nothing much about me though, just a town boy from KL, working in the land of Hornbills on the Borneo Island of Malaysia, studied in the UK and before that was in all boy school in PJ... I'm the eldest of three and I love to travel all over the world, learning about cultures and attitude of other race....

Till now, I have conquer most of the northern part of Europe and planning to continue my quest around the world...when I have the time of course!!!...

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